STARTING TODAY: IT’S MY TURN
WRITE. PRAY. LOVE: A Woman’s Journey Back to Herself (Part 2)
Today: A New Beginning
In a woman’s turbulent life, turning points can be as unexpected as plot twists in a well-known story. Often, they follow failed projects or relationships brought about by mounting stress, changing priorities, and the fading of shared goals. Life tests your strength. It is important to remember that prioritizing yourself and your dreams does not mean neglecting others or being selfish.
Navigating the Storm
Confronting My Fears
With every whispered prayer, I’ve been reminded of the recent incident when my perspective on family and love was shaken by abandonment, insecurity, and betrayal. Until the focus shifts to self-reflection and personal growth, it all begins with a personal decision, one made independently and free from external influence. This decision is pivotal because it requires unfiltered honesty and self-awareness. Not righteousness, not pride. It’s about surrendering, casting away worries, and maintaining unwavering faith. Only through these actions can true freedom be achieved.
Letting Go of Despair
Over time, I’ve learned never to succumb to despair again. Clinging to resentment, whether directed at others or certain characters, is like ingesting poison—compelling and addictive. It’s a form of miserable entertainment. I began to prioritize self-reflection, personal growth, and the nurturing of positive influences. As I shed the weight of negativity, new perspectives emerged. I discovered an inner strength that allowed me to make healthier choices across every facet of my life. I’ve learned that, at the end of the day, I am the only one accountable for my own actions and reactions.
Rebuilding Life: A Path of Transformation
After exhausting all efforts to bridge gaps, it became evident that that chapter of my life may seem to be a lost cause for whatever “valid” reasons there may be—it always takes two to tango.
As I accepted this fate, I consciously shifted my energy toward crafting a more independent future; it was more for myself this time. I began my quest for self-discovery and practical rejuvenation, marked by stages of grief that led to deep introspection. Embracing suffering as a wellspring of strength, I am gradually finding peace and acceptance.
Through therapy and introspection, friends like Drs. Maritess Gozon-Viterbo and Maricar Fajardo, experts in equine therapy and psychology, respectively, provided unwavering support. With their guidance, I began to understand the root causes of my pain and develop healthy coping mechanisms. The combination of professional help and spiritual advice helped me regain control over my life and find inner peace.
Rediscovering Self-Growth
Rekindling Passions
Through prayers and meditation, I envision a life I now lead independently. I’ve openly rediscovered long-forgotten interests and ventured into newfound passions as a digital creator, whether in graphics, podcast production, or hosting stream-talk shows. My creative spirit led me to explore wire, clay, and stone sculpting—activities I never thought I would embrace.
Skills Sharpened, Passions Fulfilled
Along the way, I honed my skills in creative writing and publishing, branding, PR, and marketing. These endeavors have not only brought me joy and fulfillment but also a profound sense of purpose and self-expression. The endless possibilities that life has to offer motivate me to expand my horizons further.
Embracing Independence
I am grateful for the independence that has allowed me to reconnect with myself. It has empowered me to make choices that align with my principles, genuine desires, and aspirations, ultimately shaping a better identity.
Embracing Myself
Embracing Chaos with Faith
Amid life’s chaos, the realignment of my spiritual growth became a necessity. Clinging to my faith (I am not preaching to convert non-believers) and seeking solace in prayer, I redirected my efforts toward empowering women, advocating for self-care, and establishing a supportive community where women can find refuge in times of adversity. I stand together with other women and men against those who consider women second-class citizens and view personal growth as a selfish pursuit. It’s crucial for both women and men to understand and acknowledge that by achieving emotional, mental, and financial stability, we can contribute more to our families, businesses, and the world at large.
Embracing My Past and Trusting the Future
I’ve learned to wholeheartedly embrace both the positive and challenging aspects of my past without regrets. There is neither hate nor anger in my heart. I trust the process, maintaining unwavering faith, and I eagerly anticipate what each new day may bring. For this reason, I choose to awaken each morning, no longer as a victim of circumstances, but as a woman whose life has been shaped by experiences and who wholeheartedly embraces and falls in love with life more deeply each day.
Time To Write the Next Chapter: Better You and Better Life
I know that we all want to live, to love, and to be loved every day. We all wish that life would be less challenging. We all hope that if we give our all, we will be enough for the people we love and even raise. In reality, no one can tell what tomorrow really brings—how you will be embraced or if you will still be embraced tomorrow.
In conclusion, I offer you this: your life, imperfect as it seems, is beautiful. And God has created it just right for you. Every now and then, remember that there is also a perfect YOU to redesign your life.
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