What can we learn from the ‘Rajo Laurel vs Eva Le Queen’s debacle?
Despite being a success thus far, Drag Race Philippines‘ first season has not been without its controversies. This is evident in the latest episode when fans of the show began to express their dismay, targeting alternating judge Rajo Laurel. The fashion designer got himself into public scrutiny after his set of remarks began to circulate online.
In the seventh episode, “Shop Shop Ladies Ball,” Laurel hurled explosives, specifically at Eva Le Queen, during judging. Calling her “Divi-divas” creation a “mortal sin”, “atrocity”, “ugly”, and “trash”, this clearly didn’t sit well with the viewers.
and you guys thought canada’s judges were harsh?? #dragraceph #dragrace #dragracephilippines pic.twitter.com/ITXmYLTOQ4
— ray ✨ (@mascarayde) September 21, 2022
While many were glad that Eva didn’t sashay away, this, however, didn’t stop them from throwing shade against Laurel.
‘Fierce and Hard’ critiques generates Fiercer and Harder reactions
As one would expect, ‘Rajo’ became a trending topic on Twitter with everyone, including drag race contestants from around the world, chiming in.
For most fans, Rajo’s way of judging may have come across overbearing and borderline offensive. One user suggests that ramification of one’s words can break a person, even if it didn’t mean no harm.
Another user calls out Rajo’s critiques as ‘unnecessary‘ and ‘unprofessional‘. Further saying that his comments does not encourage but rather invalidates creative freedom.
Meanwhile, RuPaul’s Drag Race Season 14 contestant Jasmine Kennedie decided to react on the situation with this tweet.
The fact that her outfit is a lot better than anything that came out of sewing challenges this year…. And she still got read for filth😂 https://t.co/Aq871qivZ3
— Jasmine(Mouth Almighty)Kennedie (@jasminekennedie) September 21, 2022
Kandy Muse, a fellow RuPaul alumni, had no reservations when tweeting that she would have thrown a shoe at the judges.
I would have thrown a shoe at the judges, now critique that 😹 https://t.co/X1GASSO19L
— KANDY “THE ICON” MUSE (@TheKandyMuse) September 21, 2022
This caught the attention of Laurel who candidly retweeted it with the caption, “SUBUKAN MO!!!!!”.
SUBUKAN MO!!!!! https://t.co/DPFQTIE4bR
— Rajo Laurel (@rajolaurel) September 21, 2022
“I love you Eva La Queen, alam mo yan!”
I love you #evalaqueen ALAM MO YAN!!! @dragraceph #shotna
— Rajo Laurel (@rajolaurel) September 21, 2022
In his defense, Rajo explains his side of the story in a series of tweets. Addressing the issue, he explains that everything he says on the show will always come from a “place of love”.
My judgements on @dragraceph will always stem from a place of Love! It will never come from being hurtful, mean nor evil, I only want the BEST from our queens the best from the Philippines! #dragraceph
— Rajo Laurel (@rajolaurel) September 21, 2022
Further saying that his comments are meant to be meaningful, not mean.
It’s all because of LOVE! Not Meant to be mean but only to be Meaningful. Remember that…. #dragraceph https://t.co/GBMAvkh7bt
— Rajo Laurel (@rajolaurel) September 21, 2022
All in all, he acknowledges his mistakes and has since apologized.
Naku! Disclaimer… this is the episode where my emotions came over me. Pasensya na Po. I just love our queens & @dragraceph hence the passion & intensity. ❤️🌈❤️ pic.twitter.com/O0CFbfZaBG
— Rajo Laurel (@rajolaurel) September 21, 2022
Turning over to Eva, in a tweet, she states that she feels extremely overwhelmed with the love and support she’s been receiving. She also shares that Rajo has reached out to her, patching this up and even inviting him to have dinner.
— Ms. Eva Le Queen (@eva_lequeen) September 22, 2022
She ends her message by encouraging everyone to choose kindness, above all.
Lesson Learned: Speak your truth but speak it mindfully
With all this development, we can all just wish that all the tea is finally over. With everyone weighing their opinions on the matter, we pondered on the question, “what should we impart from all of this?”.
Let this also be a lesson to each and everyone of us that we may have right to speak our mind but do so sensitively. Although it’s not necessarily a negative thing to accept and be open to criticism, we must keep in mind that not everyone has a strong mind and strong sense of self-worth to process it right away. Nonetheless, regardless of its purpose, we should always keep in mind that words are strong, and we should not abuse its power.
At the end of the day, it is a competition and with the rush of adrenaline, emotions are bound to spill over. Let us all move forward and continue supporting our queens!
Vee De Serra is a go-getter and a writer driven by passion. When in doubt, Vee believes that "Life isn't fair but it is up to you make it one." As a city and a beach person—when the sun is out—expect Vee to spend hours getting lost in the concrete jungle or laying by the shoreline with both finishing the day by watching a beautiful sunset.