Kryz Uy and Slater Young, models of modern parenting
Despite all the glitz and glamour, Kryz Uy and Slater Young remain humble. They are internet sensations dubbed to be the models of modern parenting. Being married for years, they greet each sunrise with so much love and a hopeful heart as a family. After years of marriage, they are blessed with a very bright and adorable son, Scottie, and the cute, squishy Sevi.
Kryz Uy and Slater Young, models of modern parenting
Netizens have been admiring the lovely couple for being a model of modern and positive parenting. On Kryz Uy’s vlogs, she often talked about the struggles and challenges of being a parent. The pressure of juggling her work as a content creator and a hands-on mom sometimes pushes her to the edge.
Having a toddler and an infant that desires her care and attention all at once gives her a hard time. She has a lot of preparations to do whenever she has to travel for work to make sure that her babies are being taken care of.
She experiences separation anxiety, misses them terribly, and worries. The restlessness from time to time could have drained her, but thanks to Slater, who had always been reassuring and reliable.
Kryz’s intrapersonal aspect makes her special. She perceives and reflects on things having an amazing mindset. Self-doubts and restlessness are indeed inevitable, but Slater keeps him going. They are on their second baby, but they are leaving a standard of proper parenting.
Quality time with the kids
Their job and hectic schedule have never been a problem. They always see that their kids are given enough time and attention. After a busy week, they try to bring their kids to resthouses, beaches, or parents’ houses, to unwind and have quality time. Kryz always makes breakfast with Scottie, they bond through playing, swimming, and bringing them to family events. During these times, Scott and Sevi’s laughs heard in the vlogs were contagious.
Proper display of affection
Kryz shared that giving hugs will do wonders in a relationship. It is a way for your partner to feel loved, and we have seen a lot of hugging sessions on her vlogs. They are affectionate with all family members, resulting in Scottie being clingy to Kryz. She constantly reminds Scottie to be gentle to his younger brother, Sevi.
She uses positive nicknames like honeybunch, babe, baby, etc. Her wholesome conversations with Scottie show pure emotions. At random times, he would stop laughing to see his Mom’s reaction and look genuinely concerned. We also saw how he loves his Yaya by being thoughtful and caring to them. This only shows how Scottie will grow up to be such a loving boy and sensitive to the needs of others.
Setting boundaries
Slater and Kryz are unlike other parents who would give immediately to the whims of their kids. Slater is the disciplinarian between the two, so there are non-negotiable rules. They make Scottie aware of bad deeds or when he hurts someone. They teach him to be kind, polite, appreciative, patient, and apologetic.
Scottie knows his time and obeys patiently but is naughty sometimes. It is nice to see Scottie growing up and not singing with so many gadgets, unlike other children. Their bonding teaches him a lot of things outside their photos. Kryz’s actions have always been calculated to let Scottie learn things independently.
Building trust, safety, and inclusivity
Kryz always gives attention to small details showing how much she cares for her kids. They perfected simple breakfasts while keeping him safe. She lets Scottie try new things he is curious about by explaining them to him first. Moreover, she lets him eat on his own chair and plate, acknowledges his favorite color, and celebrates small wins with hugs and affirmation.
A day never ends without her asking about his son’s activities and how his day went by. She also let Scottie wear her swimwear instead of calling not to wear it because it’s for the girls. These ways help the child to be independent, brave, and confident.
Their vlogs and podcast have become a staple in every Mom’s routine. Their videos are the exact definition of pure and wholesome family spending quality time. Many are entertained but learning a lot. This just proves to every parent that gentleness and an authoritarian parenting style is the key to breaking generational trauma.
