Why I Usually Say No to Wearing a Dress

I remember being a child watching Princess Sara, an anime drama series, on television with so much enthusiasm. Besides its beautiful story, I find the dresses of the characters in the series truly gorgeous. At the same time, I became so immersed in those dresses that I found myself dreaming about wearing one. However, the truth hurts because I do not own them and I cannot afford any dress as exquisite as theirs. All I have in me is the truth that my young self wants to wear one in the future.

Dreams Do Change

My dream about wearing a dress in the future became a dream meant to be forgotten, real quick. One time, I decided to wear one and when I looked in the mirror, I instantly regretted it. Well, I realized that I do not look as great as Sara or any of the characters in the series. Fast forward, I grew up and I put on dresses, but mostly when I am just staying at home. Of course, I wear one too when I go to church or somewhere else, but I prefer not to always.

With all that being said, here are the reasons why I usually say no to wearing a dress.

I Do Not Think I Have a Perfect Body

As a fat girl, I struggle a lot to find the perfect outfits that will complement my body type. The same goes with a dress, sometimes I find the perfect design or texture, but not the right size. As I said, I wear dresses, but I think I really don’t look flattering in them most of the time. And, I also think that I do not possess a perfect body for a dress. Nevertheless, I really adore my fellow fat girls who wear whatever they want with confidence. #SanaAll!

I Find It a Hassle

Wearing a dress can be inconvenient sometimes, especially in public places where the wind blows so hard. I know I can always wear shorts underneath, but it feels uncomfortable when you know people might see it anytime. Wind can be cool and fresh, but it can also be a traitor to those people in a dress.

Moreover, I also hate to be in a dress especially when I am sitting inside a jeepney. As a fat girl, whenever I sit, my dress shortens and it shows either my thighs or my shorts. Either way, it does not feel comfortable for me, considering how crowded it can be inside a jeepney. I can only imagine the awkwardness that will grow between me and my fellow passengers. It will not be a good ride, for sure.

Not My Style

No doubt, I like it when I am wearing a beautiful dress, but I am all about comfort. And to be honest, I do not always get the comfort that I need from sporting a dress. Furthermore, I prefer pairing up oversized tops with leggings or pants and a baggy denim jacket. Overall, I still love dresses, but if I can choose not to wear one, it would be perfectly fine.