Core memory with Friends

The people you cross paths with in life either have the power to transform you or serve as a source of motivation and lesson in life. Having a friend is never a one-way street; both people in the friendship have to put in effort. You each have something to teach the other, and you both have a hand in shaping each other’s development and the defining experience you had with them that continues to inform your identity. It’s incredible how just being around a certain person can alter your outlook. And, the core memory that were created was magnificent to look back.

Core memory with friends — Graphics | Rianne Royce Opeña

When we could sit and chat for hours on end, I remember those times fondly. Everything from life and future plans to the events of the day. And the ‘chika‘ that makes us laugh out loud to schoolwork and homework. This approach made a great deal of information accessible to me. I gained a lot of knowledge from other people, including how to listen to different points of view, and the experience is one of the core memories that I will never forget.

It is for this reason that within this memory as I learn and comprehend something new. I take pleasure in every single second that I get to spend with you all. And feeling as though the day is too short when I’m with you and the rest of the gang.

The times I’ve spent watching movie with you guys are some of the best times I’ve ever had. Starting from the moment we decide which movie to watch. The fact that we all have different tastes in movie makes it difficult for us to choose just one. Hence, thanks to all of you, I now have a better understanding of the importance of listening to the perspectives of others. And that the outcome may not be what you would prefer, and that you may need to take a step back and let them choose.

And at some point, you’ll realize that the movie was, in fact, quite good. You will be taken aback, much like life itself. Also there are times when it is not necessary to always plan and plan ahead. Simply give God control of your plans, and you will see that the outcome will be incredible. Finally, the most enjoyable part of watching a movie with friends is when we talk about what we’re seeing on the screen. In addition to this, we reflect upon our own selves, our very being.

And then just lying there, not saying a word. That time when you and your pals are off on your own, for instance. And just being in their company makes you happy; there is no awkwardness. Sometimes, all you need to do to forget your worries is to be in their company, and that’s not always an absolute necessity. That in some situations, all that’s needed is a moment of silence.

Core memories are the ones that have the most significance to the remembering person. Some experiences are so formative that they have an immediate effect on one self and the choices they make.

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Rianne Royce B. Opeña

Rianne Royce is a lady who is passionate about writing, and she is now pursuing a degree in Journalism at Bicol University. She first becomes interested in writing when she is a senior in high school and continues to pursue it when she is in college. She writes story pieces and makes sure that what she writes is current and interesting to the audience. She has a strong passion for writing, which she has developed further since joining the school-based organization BONJour and pursuing freelance writing on the side.