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What do I do when someone interrupts me in a conversation

What do I do when someone interrupts me in a conversation

More often than not, we will have to encounter people that would unknowingly interrupt us during a conversation. Despite whatever type of conversation that may be, some people will truly get on our nerves and unconsciously disturb us. Admit it or not, you may be even guilty of that act to yourself sometimes!

In a conversation, of course, everyone wants to be heard. We all know how bothering it could be when we wanted to say something but hindrances hold us back. As for me, when circumstances like these occur, I try my best to as much as possible subtly respond to the situation.

I myself have not been marked as safe in these kinds of irritating situations. Below are the simple steps that I can share whenever someone interrupts you in a conversation:

Let it slide.

Well, the last thing you could do is just let the interruption slide. As simple and comprehensive as it sounds, just simply do nothing. Some interrupters do not technically mean to interrupt a conversation. Some do it once or very infrequently. Also, their intention could be just to agree with you or they could be really interested in whatever you are conversing about.

Be your own communicator.

When the interruption occurs more occasionally, then be your own voice of wit and compassion. Be as dedicated as you are in the conversation to let the interrupter know that you are serious about the matter. Also, being vocal about your own style or approach to communicating could make the interruptions stop, respectively.

Articulate your thoughts well.

Articulating your thoughts well could be of huge help to delivering your insights effectively. If you have come prepared with the things that you are about to say, the interrupter would not stand a chance to butt in the conversation. No interruption would occur at all. But if by chance for them to interrupt, you will not be distracted because you would be able to effortlessly continue with your points.

Confront them by asking a question.

Interruptions could sometimes be not tolerable at all. In this case, you could pause for a moment, take a deep breath and ask a question. You could give way to the interrupter and ask them what you could do for them. In this case, you would be able to address your concern and be able to come back with your thoughts.

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Advise them ahead of time.

Nothing could go wrong if you advise a constant interrupter about the thoughts that you want to say. For an instance, in a meeting, there would be no harm if you inform them about the outline of your thoughts. Given that, you have to firmly address the person to let you finish and wait for their turn to speak.

You can be straightforward with your insights while remaining calm and keeping a decent disposition. Opening yourself up would not make it sound disrespectful at all. At that juncture, future conversations with that person would be expected to be smooth sailing.

Too stunned to speak? Do not let interruptions conquer your way and bear these five simple steps in mind for an efficient conversation.

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